mdx wrote:if he is not financially or physically able to care fore you, he is not a man. leave him. the man is to be the maintainer and protector of the woman. it's not the other way around. you would be behaving as the man, and that is a sin.
mdx wrote:"arn't you the same man who just said that a companion married a woman when he had nothing?"
yes, i posted that hadith. confusing isn't it?
@ confused muslimah, there is a very simple solution here. tell him that you will, according to your rights as a woman in islam, keep your money for yourself. but knowing that it is coming to you, you will gracefully waive your mahr. if he dumps you, then you know it was all about the money. if he says that is fine and he would never ask for your money, then it maybe love or he may just be calling your bluff. maybe it's only half a solution?
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